Thursday, August 16, 2012

Most Holy Redeemer at crossroads

ON SAN FRANCISCO
 
 
Most Holy Redeemer is at a crossroads. The Catholic church in the Castro district has arguably the largest gay parish in the nation, and controversial new decisions have members worried about leadership, policies - even that the church might be shut down.
And it all began with drag queens.
When the archdiocese refused to allow drag queens to serve as emcees for charity events at the church's community hall, it fed rampant paranoia about antigay sentiment. The decision was initially blamed on incoming Archbishop Salvatore Cordileone, an outspoken opponent of same-sex marriage who has been championed by extreme conservative Catholic groups. Some read the drag-queen ban as a calculated slap in the face.
Cordileone doesn't start his new job until October, but clearly the issue is bigger than drag queens at a fundraiser. The decision calls into question the responsibility of a church in the community, of the acceptance of all walks of life and the tenets of religion.
"Paranoia is very high," said Supervisor Scott Wiener, who represents the district. "There are a lot of gay people for whom this religion is very important. It's just very, very sad."
Even the possibility of closing the church, despite its illustrious San Francisco history, seems real.
"The (incoming) archbishop holds the keys to this building," said church business manager Mike Poma. "He could close us any time."
And for some, the move to quell the drag-queen decision by declaring that Ellard Hall would be closed to community events only made things worse.
Most Holy Redeemer's new pastor, the Rev. Brian Costello, who did not return a phone call, arrived in July from a church in the Richmond District. But he made a point in his first official message to welcome "old, young, married, gay, lesbian, transgender, affluent, home-cradle Catholics, radical, traditional, questioning and fervent."
So, while he was initially opposed to having drag queens as entertainment for two fundraisers for sobriety and wellness groups at Ellard Hall, he listened when Poma asked him to reconsider.
"I told him, this is just dinner. It's not a strip show," Poma said. "I told him it was going to be a powder keg."
Poma says Costello responded by making two calls to the archdiocese, where the idea was turned down flat.
"We have to give (Costello) a break," Poma said. "He's got a boss, you know. And he's never been immersed in gay culture in his life. He's learning."
What he's learning is that what might seem very strange in Middle America is everyday life in the Castro. Drag queens may not be mainstream, except at Most Holy Redeemer, where they regularly attend Mass.
"We had some boys in miniskirts last Sunday," Poma said. "And Father Costello met with them."
It should also be said that some of the gay groups that have been using the hall have gone way over the top. Several years ago the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence featured a drag queen known as Peaches Christ, who waved a crucifix shaped like a dildo. Even longtime gay parishioners thought that was too much.
The odd part of this manufactured controversy is how well the church has been working. A robust congregation of 450 to 550 members, more than 80 percent of whom are gay or lesbian, consider themselves practicing Catholics. For a religion that doesn't always seem welcoming to gays, that's impressive.
So are services. Poma says he brought his mother to Mass and she couldn't get over the warm sound of "all those men's voices." Poma says the music at Most Holy Redeemer is so renowned that visitors come from all over the country.
"We had some the other day," he said. "Afterward they said, 'You've renewed my faith.' "
Hopefully, incoming Archbishop Cordileone will also attend with an open mind. And leave with the same feeling.

C.W. Nevius is a Chronicle columnist. His columns appear Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday. E-mail: cwnevius@sfchronicle.com Twitter: @cwnevius
 
 
 

 

Sunday, August 12, 2012

“DO the Beatles have any other playlists besides ‘Sgt. Pepper’s’?”       

 

 


So asked my 5-year-old as we sat on his bunk bed, staring into his iPod and listening to Ringo Starr sing “With a Little Help From My Friends.”
Even on this important year in Beatledom, the 50th anniversary of Ringo’s joining the band and finalizing the makeup of the Fab Four, I decided not to pounce on my son with the obvious correction. For Beatle love must flower on its own terms. I would not tell him that “Sgt. Pepper’s” was an album, not a playlist. That it was an extremely important album. That a genius had produced it.
Instead I told him that the Beatles did indeed have many playlists, they had fantastic playlists, monumental playlists. Playlists like “Rubber Soul,” “Abbey Road” and that magnum opus, “The White ...” um, Playlist.
Then another troubling question.
“When the Beatles recorded their playlists, did they record them on voice memo?”
When my son behaves well I temporarily upgrade him from his creaky old legacy iPod and let him tinker on my iPhone. There, thanks to a baby sitter whose name I curse, he has discovered the voice-memo function. He uses voice memo for impromptu jam sessions with himself and crams my phone full of gigabytes until it freezes. Tears often ensue.
“Absolutely not,” I told him. “The Beatles never, ever used voice memo. They didn’t even have voice memo. They didn’t even know what voice memo was.” I went on to tell him that the Beatles put their songs on something flat, circular and black called an album.
“Where is the button on the album that you press to make it record?”
“Yeah, well, you see,” I said, scrambling. “They didn’t record directly on the album. First they recorded on a tape recorder. A tape recorder has a button.”
“But when you use a tape recorder, what do you record on?”
“Tape!”
“Oh, like masking tape?” he said, lunging for the art-supply drawer where both he and I knew three rolls of unused masking tape lay. I grabbed his arm before he could execute his plan.
“No, not masking tape.”
“Daddy, you’re hurting me.”
“Sorry,” I said. “But you can’t record voice memos on masking tape. They used something else. Something called recording tape.”
“Where is our recording tape?”
“We don’t have any. Recording tape doesn’t exist anymore.”
Seeing exasperation, he tried a different line.
“Do the Beatles live in a house?”
Oddly enough, this was something I can remember wondering myself, back in the early ’70s, a few years after the Beatles had torn themselves asunder. My own first experience of the Beatles was the film “Yellow Submarine,” in which, fans will recall, an early scene gives the very distinct impression that the Beatles do in fact all live together in a house. A giant house with mysterious doors that open and close at random, with surreal claptrap objects pouring out into corridors and the cartoon Beatles following behind in an old roadster.
“Well,” I said, “I think sometimes all the Beatles stayed in the same house. But I’m pretty sure each Beatle had his own house.”
“Whose house did they go to when they wanted to record playlists?”
Interesting question.
“I guess they probably went to Paul’s or John’s house.”
“Why?”
“Because Paul and John wrote most of the songs. But mostly they went to another house.”
“Where was that other house?”
“Abbey Road.”
A blank stare. A long pause.
“Can we go to John’s house?”
I knew somehow we were headed down this road that led past Abbey.
“No, we can’t.”
“Why not.”
“Because John is dead.”
“How did he die?”
“I don’t know,” I lied.
A long pause.
“Who else is dead?”
“George.”
“You mean there are only two Beatles left?”
Yes, I told him. There are only two left. Paul and Ringo. That is it. Paul, a man with a sweet, sweet voice, and Ringo, an endearing, cuddly sort of a guy with a long nose and interesting facial hair.
“How do you know that those Beatles are still alive?”
And then I remembered. All at once it came to me. I had seen Ringo. I had seen him in the flesh. I had been so close to him that I could have reached out and grabbed his crazy mustache. He had come to his stepdaughter’s graduation from Brown, and I had walked right past him when I went up to accept my diploma. And I told my son about this now. How Ringo had sat there smiling jauntily, his fingers literally covered in rings. Cool tinted ’80s half-shades rounded at the bottom concealed his hooded eyes, but even with all that he looked just like I imagined him. Ringo was exactly 100 percent Ringo.
I told my son all this. About how afterward I’d gone home and packed up my college house and all the while listened to all the Ringo songs on black vinyl discs called albums and how my friends and roommates all young and slim and beautiful and hopeful had danced in the empty space and how we’d all talked about Ringo, how laid back he was, how he was possibly in his own subtle humorous way perhaps the coolest Beatle of them all. And as I finished my story I realized tears were running down my cheeks and my voice was catching in my throat and I felt a winsome young fluttering feeling in my heart.
My son looked at me and nodded his head. He took a long inhale and looked past me through the window of our apartment.
“Someday,” he said wistfully. “Someday I want to be a Beatle.”
Paul Greenberg is the author of “Four Fish: The Future of the Last Wild Food.”

Thursday, July 26, 2012

After a Tragic Beginning, an Olympic Ending



On Park Avenue, in an empty lot between East 134th and 135th Streets, a 29-year-old hammer thrower was practicing one autumn day in 1904.       
His name was Simon P. Gillis. He had walked to the lot from his apartment six blocks away, on East 127th Street, as he did regularly, carrying his 16-pound weight. The ball was attached to a steel cable with a handle on the end.
After making sure no one was in harm’s way, and holding on to the handle with both hands, Gillis swung the weight in a wide loop, using all 6 feet 4 inches of his body to gather momentum and send the hammer flying. And fly it did. He launched several practice throws, according to newspaper articles written about that day.
It must have been quite a sight. A mountain of a man whirling what looked like a cannonball above his head as effortlessly as a yo-yo. He was a veritable beacon of strength, a real live strongman.
As Gillis was practicing, boys nearby were tossing a ball. An errant throw sent their ball into the empty lot. Christian Koehler, 14, ran to fetch it. As Christian reached the center of the lot, Gillis, who was already in his windup motion, sent his hammer soaring.
Cries of warning were shouted, but it was too late. The weight struck Christian on the side of his head, smashing his skull. Gillis ran to him and held him in his arms. The boy was taken to Harlem Hospital and pronounced dead. Gillis was taken to the local police station.
Details about the immediate aftermath of the incident have seemingly been lost to history. Court records could not be found, relatives of the boy’s family could not be located, and no one with firsthand knowledge of how the child’s death affected Gillis is still alive.
Gillis’s granddaughters, who live in Washington State, said in a recent interview that he never talked about the incident, though their mother told them he felt awful about it. “Back then, people didn’t dwell,” said Maureen Shriver, 66, the third of four of his grandchildren. “They just moved on.”
What is known about Gillis, however, is that he became an Olympian, competing at the Summer Games the first time they were held in London, in 1908 — four years after Gillis’s hammer struck Christian Koehler.
Shriver is the keeper of a large leather-bound scrapbook that her grandfather assembled. Inside, his life unfolds in crumbling newspaper articles, letters from the International Olympic Committee, photos from his time in the silent movies, and portraits taken of him dressed in his New York Athletic Club uniform, the winged foot logo, still used today, displayed prominently on his shirt, the hammer at his side.
An Athlete and a Dancer
Gillis, the fifth of 13 children, had been in New York for several years working as a carpenter, having left his rural home on Cape Breton Island in Nova Scotia as a teenager to join his brother in the United States.
He wrote home to his sister Sarah about his athletic endeavors, something of a hobby in his family. Although they were farmers, they were also step dancers, an activity passed down from their Scottish great-grandfather who was a dance master.
Perhaps that was the fountain from which his love of sports sprung. In New York, Gillis, like many athletes at that time, joined the New York Athletic Club and was growing his reputation as a sports star. He appeared on the sports page of The Evening World in a cartoon about a competition at Travers Island in 1906.
The cartoon showed Gillis and another athlete, John Flanagan, warming up with their hammers while chatting with each other.
“I wish you’d throw 180 feet today, Gillis,” Flanagan said, taunting his rival. “I want a little competition.” To which Gillis replied, “Sure, John, I’d hate to see you strain yourself.”
It was a good year for him. Gillis won the national junior championship, and set a record for throwing, 161 feet 8 inches, which held for almost three decades. That same year he won the championship in hammer throwing in Canada, as well.
He began competing internationally, heading to Brazil, Sweden, Denmark and Scotland, and at the same time working as a contractor overseas. But it was on the boat to the Olympic Games in London in 1908 that he earned his reputation as a man who could eat.
The story goes that he and his teammates would order so much food at each mealtime, the poor waiter who served them eventually lost his temper, having become overburdened hauling trays and trays of food to their dining table. “They’re not men,” he told a reporter on the boat. “They’re whales.”
For breakfast he would order a dozen eggs — not scrambled, or fried, or boiled. Rather, they were still in the shell. Then he would decorate the top of each egg with a dab of mustard, popping the whole ovoid into his mouth, consuming it raw, shell and all, or as he liked to call it, “Eggs with the fur on.”
He was clearly well nourished because he placed seventh at the London Games with a throw of 149 feet 6½ inches.
At another competition that year in Baltimore, he and two other Whales — the nickname from the waiter stuck — had placed an order ahead of time at a restaurant nearby. They ordered 27 dozen oysters and six T-bone steaks to be ready at 5 o’clock. When the athletes arrived at the appointed hour they discovered the table had been set for 33. The waiter turned pale, Gillis said, when he learned no one else was coming. Needless to say, the Whales ate it all.
Back in New York, while still continuing to throw the hammer in contests in and around the city, he switched careers and joined the police force. He conducted traffic at the corner of Broadway and Duane, where a horsecar line ran. There his athleticism took a new turn.
A runaway horse, without a bridle, was on the loose, putting the lives of schoolchildren at risk, Gillis recalled in a letter. Somehow he managed to stop the horse, but not before both he and the charging beast were sent through a plate-glass window in a corner shoe store.
Several seeds of caution were planted that day. In another incident, he took a horsecar driver to court for speeding. According to an article in The New York Times, the magistrate presiding over the affair fined the offending driver a dollar and told him his offense was “a heinous one.”
On the force, Gillis worked alongside other track stars. As they prepared for the 1912 Olympics in Stockholm, they became known as the Knights of the Nightstick. The New York Herald wrote a feature on them a month before they left for Sweden with the tag line: “How six members of New York’s police force are training to represent the United States in the struggle for the athletic supremacy of the world next June.”
His fellow Knight Matthew McGrath went on to win the gold in the hammer throw. Gillis had to sit out the competition with a strained leg. It was his last appearance at the Olympics.
Career Changes
Back home again in New York, Gillis found the life of a traffic cop was becoming unsustainable. In another article in The Evening World, he spoke to a reporter about why he was quitting the force to take a contracting job in Spain. “I can’t live in these times on $3.10 a day and be honest,” he said. He questioned how he was “going to keep honest if the opportunity comes for him to get graft.”
He went on to mention how he owed $350 — the cost of six uniforms — to the force, a bill he had accrued over three years of working. He itemized each piece. Among them were a winter uniform, the most expensive garment at $38, and his belt, the cheapest, at $1.50; his revolver was $14.
During his time in Spain he honed his engineering skills. He applied this knowledge to designing a hammer, a metal shell filled with mercury, which he used at a competition in England. After a throw, the weight hit a rock and shattered — a bit like an egg — with mercury spilling everywhere. The silver liquid mystified the boys who fetched the balls out in the field as they could not pick up the liquid.
After spending a couple of years working in Europe, Gillis returned to New York for yet another new career. He worked for Thomas Edison creating screen titles for silent movies, and even appeared in one or two — as a policeman.
Soon he left New York for good, heading west, where he met his wife, Bridget, in Montana, and thereafter settled in Phoenix. In 1919 his daughter, Effie, was born.
He and his wife ran a rooming house during the Depression before he settled into an engineering career, specializing in building smokestacks for smelting metal. He laid out his philosophy on career paths in a cover letter he wrote. “I never was a subscriber to the proverb ‘A rolling stone gathers no moss,’ ” he said. “All through my career, my theory was that a man who sticks to one job gets buried in it, so that my rule was to accept any offer that came along. Just so it carried a promotion and I liked the place and work, which means I traveled and was engaged in many branches of work.”
It must have come as a surprise to Gillis when his wife received letters of condolence regarding his death in 1954. Arthur Daley, the sports columnist for The New York Times, indirectly pronounced him dead in a column on the passing of Pat McDonald, who won the gold medal in shot put at the 1912 Olympics and took home another gold in the 56-pound weight throw at the 1920 Games in Antwerp, Belgium. Daley referred to McDonald as the last of the legendary Whales, that infamous group of champion athletes who ate so well.
Gillis wrote to Daley a good-humored letter that began, “I am still living!” He went on to thank him for saying he was dead, explaining: “It pays to be announced as dead once in a while to find out what people think of you. I am the oldest living hammer thrower of the American Olympic teams.”
It was another 10 years before Gillis died, at age 88, nearly 60 years after his fateful practice throw in an empty lot on Park Avenue.
Alan Delaquérière contributed reporting.

Friday, July 13, 2012

The High Life Under the Stars



IN a city like New York, private outdoor space can be more rare than a spare bedroom. But for the wealthy, that space often becomes an extension of an already fabulous apartment, a living room in the sky that makes the summer and fall months unforgettable.
It could be where you hold that fabulous charity cocktail fundraiser, or sip a glass of rosé with that significant other (or others), or where you take a shower to wash off the suntan lotion from a day of bronzing, before slinking into a robe and dozing off in a chaise under the stars.
Given how competitive New Yorkers are about real estate, it’s no surprise that they also try to create outdoor spaces to brag about and fuel the envy of others. As a tough summer assignment I gave to myself, I recently toured some properties (most for sale) whose owners were boasting about their decks and rooftops.
I stepped out onto a terrace at the Rushmore, a building on the Far West Side, that at 2,400 square feet was larger than the entire 1,500-square-foot two-bedroom apartment. The outdoor space, which has a lonely Jacuzzi in the middle, spread out like a vast parking lot. I stared at it for a few moments and couldn’t picture ever having enough trees, plants or comfy chaises to make it feel inviting.
That’s me. Some owners adroitly transform their outdoor spaces into the most memorable part of their apartment or town house, and take enormous pride in doing so.
Consider Matthew Blesso, a New Jersey-born real estate developer. After buying his spacious two-bedroom penthouse at 684 Broadway in NoHo in 2006, he set out to “blur the line between the inside and the outside.”
He bartered for more roof rights, paying $200,000 to put in a new roof for the building. That gave him about 2,200 square feet of rooftop. He built an outdoor shower, got a friend who is a gardener at the Brooklyn Botanic Garden to create a “meadow” of wild-looking plants and flowers like Queen Anne’s lace. An automatic irrigation system waters them twice a day.
The main area features outdoor couches and a full kitchen that includes a dishwasher, an icemaker, a grill, even a beer tap. He sometimes hangs a cloth screen against a wall covered by plants and shows movies for friends, placing a projector on a chair.
“It’s fun to watch movies about New York up here,” he said, noting that the first movie he ever screened was “Annie Hall.”
And up a gentle slope, you reach a sort of private romantic perch where you can look out over NoHo and have a private chat, Mr. Blesso said. “I wanted to be in the middle of it all but in a sanctuary at the same time,” he said. “I love New York, but find it incredibly stressful.”
Mr. Blesso, 39, is now selling his apartment for $8.95 million, hoping to move on to a place in Brooklyn.
At 94 Thompson Street I found an impressive set of outdoor terraces in the penthouse of a building that once housed a few SoHo art galleries. Ian Tarr, the British owner, took two years to remodel it, spending about as much on the outdoor space as the $4.725 million he paid for the apartment in 2004. Victoria Blau, a New York architect, and Nico Rensch, a Swiss designer, turned Mr. Tarr’s vision into reality.
There are three rooftop terraces. One faces west and is the designated sun deck. On the opposite end, another terrace was made into a breakfast space by adding two trees and some plantings. Looking up you can see the penthouse next door that used to be owned by the actress Meg Ryan.
In the middle is a broad terrace with cozy furniture custom-designed by Gandia Blasco, a Spanish company that does pergolas for beach resorts, Mr. Tarr told me by telephone this week. There is a barbecue, an ice machine and small fridges.
Mr. Tarr spends most of his time back in London, where he is a partner at a scientific database publishing company; he lets friends and family use his SoHo pad on an almost continuous basis. He is listing it for $11.7 million.
At 221 West 13th Street, I found a compelling example of the ingenuity that can be used for a rooftop space in a town house. There, Andrew de Candole, a British property developer, had created a relaxing entertainment space with a small infinity wading pool with Jacuzzi jets, an outdoor kitchen and bar and a partially enclosed dining room with air conditioners and a big ceiling fan. The coolest feature, though, was the retractable glass roof that allows access to the terrace from inside the house. The town house is listed for $11.5 million.
Some people have created gardens that make them feel as if they weren’t in the city at all. At 35-37 North Moore Street, I found a penthouse whose owners, William and Ursula Fairbairn, had transformed two bare terraces into elaborate gardens. They hired Shinichiro Abe, who designed the Peace Bell Garden at the United Nations, to make one terrace into a Japanese garden. The couple enjoy sitting in their living room and quietly looking out at the garden, sometimes with a glass of Champagne, said Mr. Fairbairn, 76.
“It’s very calming,” he said. “And if you get down there in a snowstorm, it is magical.”
On the other side of the apartment is an even larger garden terrace, with a more English feel, that has a small lily pond with goldfish. The Fairbairns are selling the apartment for $19.95 million.
For sheer wow factor, nothing I saw beat the outdoor space under construction at Michael Hirtenstein’s triplex at 1 York in TriBeCa. Mr. Hirtenstein, a telecom millionaire and well-known collector of trophy properties, moved into his apartment last month. Now he is fitting out every inch of the 5,800 square feet of outdoor space, which is spread over several terraces.
“It is going to be like a yacht,” he said of the plan for one side of the main terrace area, which you enter through glass doors from an enormous living room in the 10,000-square-foot apartment designed by Thomas Juul-Hansen, who is doing the interiors at One57.
Workers are preparing the curved wood that will house a sunken entertainment area, which will feature a grill, a stone fire pit, a retractable 55-inch TV and a wood-slatted roof for privacy.
On the far side he has already installed a large infinity-edge pool and a 16-speaker sound system to give a cinemalike experience when a retractable projector screen rises 16 feet high from behind the pool. In the next week or two he is expecting waterproof remotes to arrive that guests will be able to throw into the pool.
It’s the high-tech version of Mr. Blesso’s simpler rooftop theater. But the effect will be the same: an outdoor living room in the sky, but still within view of neighbors, to remind them of what to add to their wish list.