A Rush to Judgment “Woody
Allen and Mia Farrow”
Robert B. Weide “The
Daily Beast”
Twenty-one years after the first allegations that Woody Allen abused his adopted daughter, that incident is back in the news thanks to the director’s ex-partner, Mia Farrow, and estranged son, Ronan Farrow. But what does a closer examination reveal?
As anyone with access
to a computer knows, Woody Allen has been pilloried of late across the
internet, over allegations that 21 years ago, he molested the daughter he and
Mia Farrow adopted in 1985. Countless people have weighed in on this, many of
them without the slightest idea of what the facts are in this matter. I
consider myself allergic to gossip and tabloids, and go out of my way to avoid
them. So when a celebrity is being devoured by the two-headed piranha of gossip
and innuendo, I usually have minimal understanding of what they did, or were
alleged to have done. Woody Allen is an exception.
I produced and directed
the two-part PBS special, ”Woody Alen: A Documentary" that premiered in
the U.S. on the “American Masters” series. I also supervised and consulted on
the brief clip montage that aired as part of the recent Golden Globes telecast,
when Allen received the Cecil B. DeMille Award for Lifetime Achievement.
When I went online
the morning after the Globes broadcast, I found more than one email asking if I
had seen the previous night’s tweets from Mia Farrow and her son, Ronan. A
quick search led me not only to the accusatory tweets, but to the explosion of
internet chatter that followed in their wake. The more benevolent comments
suggested Woody should rot in jail. Others were demanding his head on a pike.
Last fall, Vanity
Fair magazine ran an article about Mia and her family, which included an
interview with the 28-year-old Malone (née Dylan), who, at the age of seven,
was at the center of Mia’s allegations that made headlines during the brutal
custody battle between her and Woody. In the recent interview, Malone stands
behind her mother’s accusation. It was the one-two punch of the Vanity Fair
piece and the Farrow tweets that stirred up the hornet’s nest that had remained
somewhat dormant over the past 20 years.
My documentary
covered Allen’s relationship with Soon-Yi Previn (Mia’s adopted daughter and
Woody’s wife of 16 years) and the ensuing fall-out, but I chose not to go down
the rabbit hole detailing the custody case, as my film was primarily about his
work, and I had no interest in allowing it to turn into a courtroom drama. I
did, however, thoroughly research the entire episode in order to reach my own
conclusions about what did or didn’t take place.
My association with
Woody is primarily a professional one, though we’ve remained friendly since the
documentary and still occasionally correspond by email via his assistant (since
Woody still types on a 60-year old manual typewriter). When I
wrote him the day after the ceremony, he was vaguely aware that Mia and Ronan
had badmouthed him (again), but he wasn’t certain what Twitter was. (He’s heard
of blogging and always confuses the two.) Because he doesn’t go online, he was
blissfully unaware of how much ink (sorry, bandwidth) the story was getting. If
he had known, he still wouldn’t have cared. Mia’s accusations were old
business, and the fact that Ronan was publicly chiming in meant nothing to
Woody, who hadn’t even seen his (alleged) son for 20 years. I also knew Woody
would never publicly respond to any of this. His indifference to the gossip has
always struck me not as a decision so much as an involuntary and organic
reaction. In fact, during a written exchange that day in which I mentioned the
tweet attack, he was more focused on giving me advice about a stye I had on my
eyelid that I joked was probably a brain tumor: “I agree, you probably do have
a brain tumor. You should get your affairs in order quickly as those things can
move rather rapidly. You’ll probably start to have some problems with your
balance—don’t panic—it’s quite natural for a brain tumor.” He then counseled me
not to use up my “remaining days” fretting over Mia.
As the day
progressed, it seemed the misinformation on the internet was growing
exponentially spurious by the minute. The more even-keeled bloggers and pundits
were asking, “Is it possible to separate the art from the artist?” or “Is
America ready to forgive Woody Allen?” The very phrasing of these questions
presumed that Woody had done something terrible, and we had to decide how much
we would let it bother us. My wife suggested that in absence of a response by
Woody, he was being swiftboated. His silence created a vacuum that everybody
with a keyboard was going to fill with whatever they believed or thought they
believed or heard from someone else who heard from someone who linked to the Vanity
Fair article.
I considered whether
to enter the fray, since my credentials were in order, so to speak. I had
researched these events, I knew Woody—was friendly with him, but we weren’t so
close that anyone could rightfully accuse me of being in his pocket. Quite the
opposite in fact, as Woody had already advised me not to get involved. But as I
came across more and more articles and blogs filled with misinformation, my
wife said something to me that struck a chord: “You have just as much right to
weigh in on this as anyone else, regardless of what Woody thinks.”
So here I
go—contributing to the very noise I’ve been complaining about.
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There are basically
two issues at play here. One is Woody’s starting a romantic/sexual relationship
with Mia’s adopted daughter Soon-Yi Previn, in 1991. The other is Mia’s
accusation—used during their custody battle for their three shared
children—that Woody molested their 7-year-old adopted daughter Dylan. People
tend to confuse these two issues, so let’s examine them separately.
First, the Soon-Yi
situation:
Every time I stumble
upon this topic on the internet, it seems the people who are most outraged are
also the most ignorant of the facts. Following are the top ten misconceptions,
followed by my response in italics:
#1: Soon-Yi was
Woody’s daughter. False.
#2: Soon-Yi was
Woody’s step-daughter. False.
#3: Soon-Yi was Woody
and Mia’s adopted daughter. False. Soon-Yi was the adopted daughter of Mia
Farrow and André Previn. Her full name was Soon-Yi Farrow Previn.
#4: Woody and Mia
were married. False.
#5: Woody and Mia
lived together. False. Woody lived in his apartment on Fifth Ave. Mia and
her kids lived on Central Park West. In fact, Woody never once stayed over
night at Mia’s apartment in 12 years.
#6: Woody and Mia had
a common-law marriage. False. New York State does not recognize common law
marriage. Even in states that do, a couple has to cohabitate for a certain
number of years.
#7: Soon-Yi viewed
Woody as a father figure. False. Soon-Yi saw Woody as her mother’s
boyfriend. Her father figure was her adoptive father, André Previn.
#8: Soon-Yi was
underage when she and Woody started having relations. False. She was either
19 or 21. (Her year of birth in Korea was undocumented, but believed to be
either 1970 or ’72.)
#9: Soon-Yi was
borderline retarded. Ha! She’s smart as a whip, has a degree from Columbia
University and speaks more languages than you.
#10: Woody was
grooming Soon-Yi from an early age to be his child bride. Oh, come on!
According to court documents and Mia’s own memoir, until 1990 (when Soon-Yi was
18 or 20), Woody “had little to do with any of the Previn children, (but) had
the least to do with Soon-Yi” so Mia encouraged him to spend more time with
her. Woody started taking her to basketball games, and the rest is tabloid
history. So he hardly “had his eye on her” from the time she was a child.
Let me add this: If
anyone is creeped out by the notion of a 55-year old man becoming involved with
his girlfriend’s 19-year old adopted daughter, I understand. That makes perfect
sense. But why not get the facts straight? If the actual facts are so repugnant
to you, then why embellish them?
It’s understandable
that Mia would remain furious with Woody for the rest of her life. If I were in
Mia’s position, I’m sure I’d feel the same way. (Though I’d likely handle it as
a private matter and not be tweeting about him being a pedophile, just before
tweeting, “omfg look at this baby panda.”) I also understand the simmering
anger of Ronan Farrow (née Satchel), who has famously said of Allen, “He’s my
father married to my sister. That makes me his son and his brother-in-law. That
is such a moral transgression.” However, this particular dilemma might be
resolved by Mia’s recent revelations that Ronan’s biological father may
“possibly” be Frank Sinatra, whom Farrow married in 1966, when she was 21 and
the crooner was 50.
While we’re on the
subject, a word about this Sinatra business: To even say that Ronan is
“possibly” Sinatra’s son implies that Mia was fooling around with her
ex-husband decades after their divorce. Backdating from Ronan’s birthdate, it
means that Farrow and Sinatra “hooked up” in March of 1987 when Mia was 42 and
Old Blue Eyes was 71. This sort of dispels the myth that Woody and Mia had this
idyllic, loving, monogamous relationship until Woody threw it all away in 1992,
since Mia was apparently diddling her ex, five years earlier. If Mia was “just
kidding” about the Sinatra scenario, it was an awfully insensitive thing to
say, considering the fact that Sinatra’s wife, Barbara, is still very much
alive. Did Mia stop to think how her coy tease might be perceived by the widow
Sinatra? One can only wonder if this also fits Ronan’s definition of a “moral
transgression.” (One may also wonder whether Woody is owed a fortune in
reimbursement for child support.)
I am not here to slam
Mia. I think she’s an exceptional actress and I seriously admire her political
activism. (I even follow her on Twitter.) But those who hate Woody “for what he
did to Mia,” should be reminded that if Sinatra was indeed Ronan’s biological
father, it’s not the first time Mia had a child by a married man. In 1969, at
the age of 24, she became pregnant by musician/composer André Previn, 40, who
was still married to singer/songwriter Dory Previn. The betrayal is said to
have led to Dory Previn’s mental breakdown and institutionalization, during
which she received electroconvulsive therapy. She would later write a song
called, “Beware of Young Girls” about Mia. Maybe
sleeping with your friend’s husband doesn’t earn as many demerits as sleeping
with your girlfriend’s adopted daughter, but if you’re waving the “Never
Forget” banner in Mia’s honor, let’s be consistent and take a moment to also remember
the late Dory Previn. (Or better yet, let’s forget the whole damn
thing, considering it’s none of our business.)
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Now, on to the more
delicate issue of Mia’s accusations during the custody case that Woody sexually
abused Dylan/Malone.
A brief but chilling
synopsis of the accusation is as follows: On August 4, 1992, almost four months
after the revelation about Woody and Soon-Yi’s relationship understandably
ignited a firestorm within the Farrow household, Woody was visiting Frog Hollow,
the Farrow country home in Bridgewater, Connecticut, where Mia and several of
her kids were staying. During an unsupervised moment, Woody allegedly took
Dylan into the attic and, shall we say, “touched her inappropriately.” Later in
the day, it was alleged that the child was wearing her sundress, but that her
underpants were missing. The following day, Mia’s daughter allegedly told her
mother what had happened, and Mia put the child’s recounting of the story on
videotape as evidence.
Did this event
actually occur? If we’re inclined to give it a second thought, we can each
believe what we want, but none of us know. Why does the adult Malone say it
happened? Because she obviously believes it did, so good for her for speaking
out about it in Vanity Fair. Her brother Ronan believes it happened, so
good for him for sticking up for his sister in 140 characters or less. They’ve
both grown up in a household where this scenario has been accepted as
indisputable fact, so why shouldn’t they believe it?
I know I’m treading a
delicate path here, and opening myself up to accusations of “blaming the
victim.” However, I’m merely floating scenarios to consider, and you can think
what you will. But if Mia’s account is true, it means that in the middle of
custody and support negotiations, during which Woody needed to be on his best
behavior, in a house belonging to his furious ex-girlfriend, and filled with
people seething mad at him, Woody, who is a well-known claustrophobic, decided
this would be the ideal time and place to take his daughter into an attic and
molest her, quickly, before a house full of children and nannies noticed they
were both missing.
Even people who give
Woody the benefit of the doubt and defend him on the internet are often
confused on a few points. Some mistakenly say that the court found him “not
guilty” of the molestation charges. The fact is there was never such a ruling
because he was never charged with a crime, since investigative authorities
never found credible evidence to support Mia’s (and Dylan’s) claim.
[Woody] was never
charged with a crime, since investigative authorities never found credible
evidence to support Mia’s (and Dylan’s) claim.
Let’s back up a bit:
Mia’s allegations of molestation automatically triggered a criminal
investigation by the Connecticut State Police, who brought in an investigative
team from the Yale-New Haven Hospital, whose six-month long inquiry (which
included medical examinations) concluded that Dylan had not been
molested. I’ve since read a recurring canard that Woody “chose” the
investigative team. Yet nobody has suggested how or why Mia’s team would ever
outsource the investigation to a team “chosen” by Woody. Others have said that
the investigators talked to psychiatrists “on Allen’s payroll” before letting
him off the hook. The only way I can explain this is that the investigators,
naturally, would have spoken with Woody’s shrinks before giving him a clean
bill of health. So technically, yeah, Woody’s shrinks would have been paid a
lot of money by Woody over the years. (Let’s even call it an annuity.) The same
would be true of his dentist, his eye doctor, and his internist.
As for the
evidentiary videotape of young Dylan’s claims, it’s been noted that there were
several starts and stops in the recording, essentially creating in-camera
“edits” to the young girl’s commentary. This raises questions as to what was
happening when the tape wasn’t running. Was Mia “coaching” her daughter
off-camera, as suggested by the investigators? Mia says no—she merely turned
the camera on whenever Dylan starting talking about what Daddy did. Maybe we
should take Mia at her word on this. Since I wasn’t there, I think it’s good
policy not to presume what took place.
The videotape and the
medical exams weren’t the only problems Mia faced in bringing abuse charges
against her former lover. There were problems with inconsistencies in her
daughter’s off-camera narrative as well. A New York Times article dated March 26, 1993,
quotes from Mia’s own testimony, during which she recalled taking the child to
a doctor on the same day as the alleged incident. Farrow recalled, “I think
(Dylan) said (Allen) touched her, but when asked where, she just looked around
and went like this,” at which point Mia patted her shoulders. Farrow recalls
she took Dylan to another doctor, four days later. On the stand, Allen’s
attorney asked Mia about the second doctor’s findings: “There was no evidence
of injury to the anal or vaginal area, is that correct?” Farrow answered,
“Yes.”
In the midst of the
proceedings, on February 2, 1993, a revealing article appeared in the Los Angeles
Times, headlined: “Nanny Casts Doubt on Farrow Charges,” in
which former nanny Monica Thompson (whose salary was paid by Allen, since three
of the brood were also his) swore in a deposition to Allen’s attorneys that she
was pressured by Farrow to support the molestation charges, and the pressure
led her to resign her position. Thompson had this to say about the videotape:
““I know that the tape was made over the course of at least two and perhaps
three days. I recall Ms. Farrow saying to Dylan at that time, ‘Dylan, what did
daddy do… and what did he do next?’ Dylan appeared not to be interested, and
Ms. Farrow would stop taping for a while and then continue.”
Thompson further
revealed a conversation she had with Kristie Groteke, another nanny. “She told
me that she felt guilty allowing Ms. Farrow to say those things about Mr.
Allen. (Groteke) said the day Mr. Allen spent with the kids, she did not have
Dylan out of her sight for longer than five minutes. She did not remember Dylan
being without her underwear.”
On April 20, 1993, a
sworn statement was entered into evidence by Dr. John M. Leventhal, who headed
the Yale-New Haven Hospital investigative team looking into the abuse charges. An article from the New York Times dated May 4,
1993, includes some interesting excerpts of their findings. As to
why the team felt the charges didn’t hold water, Leventhal states: “We had two
hypotheses: one, that these were statements made by an emotionally disturbed
child and then became fixed in her mind. And the other hypothesis was that she
was coached or influenced by her mother. We did not come to a firm conclusion.
We think that it was probably a combination.”
Leventhal further
swears Dylan’s statements at the hospital contradicted each other as well as
the story she told on the videotape. “Those were not minor inconsistencies. She
told us initially that she hadn’t been touched in the vaginal area, and she
then told us that she had, then she told us that she hadn’t.” He also said the
child’s accounts had “a rehearsed quality.” At one point, she told him, “I like
to cheat on my stories.” The sworn statement further concludes: “Even before
the claim of abuse was made last August, the view of Mr. Allen as an evil and
awful and terrible man permeated the household. The view that he had molested
Soon-Yi and was a potential molester of Dylan permeated the household… It’s
quite possible —as a matter of fact, we think it’s medically probable—that
(Dylan) stuck to that story over time because of the intense relationship she
had with her mother.” Leventhal further notes it was “very striking” that each
time Dylan spoke of the abuse, she coupled it with “one, her father’s
relationship with Soon-Yi, and two, the fact that it was her poor mother, her
poor mother,” who had lost a career in Mr. Allen’s films.
Much is made by Mia’s
supporters over the fact that the investigative team destroyed their collective
notes prior to their submission of the report. Also, the three doctors who made
up the team did not testify in court, other than through the sworn deposition
of team leader Leventhal. I have no idea if this is common practice or highly
unusual. I won’t wager a guess as to what was behind the destruction of the
notes any more than I’ll claim to know why Mia stopped and started her video
camera while filming her daughter’s recollections over a few days, or who was
alleged to have leaked the tape of Dylan to others, or why Mia wouldn't take a
lie detector test. (Woody took one and passed.) In any event, destruction of
the notes may have been part of the reason that, despite the very conclusive
position taken by the investigators that Dylan was not abused, presiding
Judge Elliot Wilk found their report “inconclusive.”
Judge Wilk would
ultimately grant Mia custody of Satchel and Dylan. 15-year-old Moses chose not
to see Woody, which was his right. It was a hard-won victory for Mia who
returned home with eight of her nine children intact. She would go on to adopt
six more, including Thaddeus Wilk Farrow, named in honor of the Honorable Judge
Wilk.
Woody was granted
supervised visitation of Satchel, but his request for immediate visitation with
Dylan was denied until the young girl underwent a period of therapy, after
which a further review of visitation would be considered. As a legal matter,
the investigation of possible criminal abuse would continue.
Almost four months
after Wilk’s decision, the Connecticut authorities abandoned the criminal
investigation, resulting in an unusual statement from Litchfield, Connecticut
County Prosecutor Frank Maco, who dismissed the abuse charges against Woody,
but still maintained that he had “probable cause” to believe Dylan. In the
minds of many, the decision would leave Woody in a kind of moral limbo.
Legally, he was cleared of everything—except a dark cloud of suspicion. Woody
was furious, and called a press conference in which he referred to the state’s
attorney office as “cowardly, dishonest and irresponsible. Even today, as they
squirm, lie, sweat, and tap-dance, pathetically trying to save face and justify
their moral squalor… there was no evidence against me. There is none now. I
promise you, smear as they may, they will always claim to have evidence; but
notice that somehow they will manage to find reasons why they can’t quite show
it to you.”
Woody’s ad-hoc press
conference made for good television and was widely covered in the press. Less
widely disseminated was a news item that appeared in the New York Times five months later
(Feb. 24, 1994), which reported that a disciplinary panel found the actions of
County Prosecutor Frank Maco (the “probable cause” guy) were cause for “grave
concern” and may have prejudiced the case. It winds up that Maco sent his
“probable cause” statement to the Surrogate’s Court judge in Manhattan who was
still deciding on Allen’s adoption status of Dylan and Moses, which Mia was
trying to annul. The panel wrote, “In most circumstances, [Maco’s comments]
would have violated the prosecutor’s obligation to the accused. [His actions
were] inappropriate, unsolicited, and potentially prejudicial.” The article
states that the agency could have voted sanctions against Maco ranging from
censure to disbarment. Though the decision was quite damning, Maco got what
amounted to a slap on the wrist. Two years later, the reprimand was overturned,
but Mia was unsuccessful in her bid to annul the adoptions. Legally, Woody
remains the adoptive father of Dylan and Moses.
Moses Farrow, now 36,
and an accomplished photographer, has been
estranged from Mia for several years. During a recent conversation, he spoke of
“finally seeing the reality” of Frog Hollow and used the term “brainwashing”
without hesitation. He recently reestablished contact with Allen and is
currently enjoying a renewed relationship with him and Soon-Yi.
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Life would go on for
both Woody and Mia, respectively. Aside from tending to her growing family,
Farrow would come to be recognized as a leading human rights advocate, with
special concern for the plight of children in conflict-torn regions. She has
worked diligently to bring attention to the Sudanese genocide in Darfur, and
has made many trips to the region, receiving several awards for her
humanitarian efforts in the process. Woody Allen would continue his ritual of
writing and producing a film per-year—an unprecedented pace he’s maintained
since 1969. The accolades and awards continue to pour in, and no one is less
impressed than Allen, who has traditionally stayed away from all awards shows.
In 1997, Woody and
Soon-Yi would marry in Venice, Italy, and over the next few years adopt two
daughters. Anyone who has adopted is familiar with the vetting process
conducted by social workers and licensed government agencies charged with
looking out for the child’s welfare. Suffice it to say, the case of Woody and
Soon-Yi was no exception, especially considering the highly-publicized events
of 1992-93. Both adoptions, in two different states, were thoroughly reviewed
by state court judges who found no reason why Woody and his wife shouldn’t be
allowed to adopt. The girls, now aged 15 and 13, are named Bechet (after jazz
saxophonist/clarinetist Sidney Bechet) and Manzie (after jazz drummer Manzie
Johnson).
It took me little
more than two years to complete my film, Woody Allen: A Documentary. I
conducted hours of filmed interviews with Woody, who put forward no ground
rules about questions I could ask, or topics to avoid. Although I shot some
film on location with Woody in London and Cannes, most of our filming took
place in New York City. On more than one occasion, when I was planning to
interview Woody, I found I had to schedule around mornings when he’d walk his
kids to school, or attend parent-teacher conferences. The normalcy of his
domestic life was somehow surprising to me. I’ve not spent a lot of time with
his kids, but I’ve met them on a few occasions where I’ve received the cursory
“hello,” as they went about their business doing girl stuff with their friends.
The only parent-child tensions I’ve been privy to are that his girls think
their father’s mean for not letting them have a dog, and that he’s an idiot for
not knowing how to work a computer. Lest anyone accuse me of being in Woody’s
pocket, I’ll confess that I side with his kids on both counts.
My more recent
professional association with Woody took place last month, when I was asked to
work on the Allen clip montage for the Golden Globes. The montage editor,
Nicholas Goodman, and I wanted to include a brief moment from The Purple
Rose of Cairo, in which Mia appeared. The producers were concerned about
whether she would sign a release for the clip. (The Screen Actors Guild
maintains very strict rules about obtaining authorization from any actor who
appears in a clip excised for compilations.) I thought it unlikely that Mia
would object, as I had obtained a signed release for my documentary, in which
she granted permission for her appearance in many lengthy clips from several
Allen films. At the time, I was extremely grateful for her cooperation, for
without it, I would have had a 12-year gap in my film, and Mia would have been
extremely conspicuous by her absence. I even took it as a possible sign that 20
years after the fact, perhaps the healing process had begun to take hold. As a
further sign of good will, Mia agreed to the use of her “Purple Rose” clip in
the Golden Globe montage. The producers of the show were grateful. Everyone
agreed it would have been a shame not to acknowledge Mia’s contribution to so
many of Allen’s best films.
At the ceremony in
Beverly Hills, actress Emma Stone, having just worked with Woody on his latest
film Magic in the Moonlight, introduced the montage, followed by Diane
Keaton’s surrogate acceptance speech, which was typically sentimental, loopy,
and very Keatonesque. Woody, who would have never stopped throwing up had he
been there, was instead in New York at the Stephen Sondheim Theatre for the
opening of Beautiful: The Carole King Musical, whose book was written by
Woody’s friend Doug McGrath. Woody had already told me that if the show let out
early enough, he was hoping to get home in time to catch the last quarter of
the football playoffs.
Apparently, Mia and
Ronan assigned more significance to the festivities than did Woody, seeing the
televised occasion as a perfect opportunity to bring him down a few pegs. The
first of Mia’s tweets, issued as the Woody segment commenced, was restrained
and kind of cute: “Time to grab some icecream & switch over to #GIRLS.” I
smiled when I read it, and thought, “Why not? You already saw the montage when
you approved the use of your clip.” Her second tweet, referencing the recent Vanity
Fair article, was nastier: “A woman has publicly detailed Woody Allen’s
molestation of her at age 7. GoldenGlobe tribute showed contempt for her &
all abuse survivors.”
This one puzzled me.
I thought it was odd to say the Globe tribute showed contempt for abuse
survivors when Mia willfully participated in the festivities by expressly
agreeing to the use of her clip, when she had every opportunity to decline. She
certainly wasn’t pressured, and we had an alternative version of the montage (sans
Mia) all ready to go in case she passed. It seemed Mia either wanted it both
ways, or simply assumed no one would ever learn that she was complicit in the
tribute. By the time I saw her third tweet, asking, “Is he a pedophile?” and
linking to the Vanity Fair article, my most charitable thought was that
this woman needs to get over herself. A more mischievous part of me wanted to
repost her tweet, but swap out her link for one leading to an article about the recent 10-year jail sentence
received by her brother, John Charles Villiers-Farrow, for multiple
counts of child molestation—a topic she’s been unusually quiet about,
considering her penchant for calling out alleged (let alone, convicted)
molesters to whom she’s exposed her children.
During a recent
conversation, [Moses Farrow] spoke of “finally seeing the reality” of Frog
Hollow and used the term “brainwashing” without hesitation.
I was actually
somewhat impressed with Ronan Farrow’s now-famous tweet from the summer of
2012: “Happy father’s day—or as they call it in my family, happy
brother-in-law’s day.” The target was fair game, and I remember thinking Ronan
had inherited his father’s wit—before his actual paternity came into question.
(A good sense of humor and the ability to think on his feet will serve him well
on his own show on MSNBC.) But his tweet the night of the Globes was a bit more
vicious: “Missed the Woody Allen tribute—did they put the part where a woman
publicly confirmed he molested her at age 7 before or after Annie Hall?”
Brevity may be the soul of wit, if not nuanced accuracy. Had he stated that a
woman publicly “alleged” molestation, it probably wouldn’t have triggered quite
the reaction Ronan was looking for, just weeks before his show debuts. To
remind readers that the woman is recalling memories from the age of seven, when
a six-month investigation characterized her as being “emotionally disturbed,”
and making statements that were likely “coached or influenced by her mother,”
takes a little more than 140 characters.
I’ve already said
this, but it bears repeating: I know Dylan/Malone believes these events took
place, and I know Ronan believes so too. I am not in a position to say they
didn’t, any more than all the people on the internet calling for Woody’s head
can say they did. The point is that accusations make headlines; retractions are
buried on page twelve, and coerced accusations are as much a reality as coerced
confessions. Since Woody literally pays no mind to this stuff, and he continues
to work and have a happy home life, I would never suggest he’s a victim in this
case. The real victim has always been Malone. For me, however, the real
questions are: who’s doing the victimizing, and does pain really heal better in
the public spotlight? I don’t pretend to have answers for either question.
Malone, who is now a
writer and artist, and happily married to an information-technology specialist,
had been living a seemingly quiet life out of the spotlight. Obviously, if she
feels that an interview with Vanity Fair is a necessary part of her
healing process, that’s her right. I can only hope it brought her some closure,
and I sincerely wish her all the happiness and peace she’s been looking for. I
can even clear up one tiny mystery for her, of which I have personal knowledge.
In the Vanity Fair
article, Malone says that while a senior in college, she received in
the mail a stuffed, manila envelope from Woody, filled with old photos of the
two of them. She didn’t recognize the handwriting, but “(the envelope) had a
fake return name: Lehman.” When I was working on my documentary, I’d
occasionally request material from Woody’s office, which would be mailed to me
by his assistant whose name would appear on the return address. During Malone’s
senior year in college, Woody had an assistant whose surname was Lehman. So
there’s one mystery solved. If only all the others were so easy.
As to the overall
reliability or objectivity of Vanity Fair, I can’t really take a
position. I do know that the publication was sued for libel in 2005
by director Roman Polanski who, in 1977, pled guilty to unlawful intercourse
with a thirteen-year-old girl in Los Angeles that year. The magazine published
an article stating that in 1969, Polanski was seen fondling and hitting on a
young model at Elaine’s restaurant in New York City on his way to the funeral
of his late wife Sharon Tate, who had been brutally slain by the Manson family.
One of the witnesses who testified on Polanski’s behalf was Mia Farrow, who,
I’m told, remains friendly with the director to this day. I commend her for
standing by her friend and going on record as a character witness. That’s what
friends do. In fact, her support of Polanski is so steadfast that when he won
the Oscar for best director for his 2002 masterpiece, The Pianist, Mia
never even suggested that the Motion Picture Academy showed contempt for all
abuse survivors in so honoring him. But then again, those were the days before
Twitter.
Polanski won his libel suit against Vanity Fair.
It was proven that the director wasn’t even in New York on his way to his
wife’s funeral, which took place in Los Angeles
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